To be or not to bea cynic that is. As Valentine's Day looms ever closer, it is becoming more difficult not to see it as the grotesque abuse of those who seek to reaffirm their love for one another. Let's take the less cynical view: a day set aside to celebrate love; to relive treasured memories; to focus on the good of your relationship. Add some flowers and chocolates into the mix and you have a special day to revel in mutual love.
Whilst many people who find themselves alone on Valentine's Day find it easy to be pessimistic, especially when they are bombarded with images of happy couples, it is important to remember that Valentine's Day is not just for couples. Obviously this is easy to say when lovers seem to be everywhere, restaurants are full of romantic tables for two and soppy cards take over every store front, but what about taking a different approach this year?
I am filled with pity for these folks who are solo in a world of pairs. But, do we have it all wrong. Isn't this Day of Love a day to celebrate just that: love? Love in its various, wonderful forms. No need for the sentimental card, the chocolate rose, the exorbitant restaurant. Time for a different approach. Time to think about actual love: love of a mother, a son, a friend. Deserves celebration, right? What about acts of kindness that fill one with a sense of well-being? So, alter your focus: show those who love you unconditionally how you feel; help those in need, give of yourself. The payback will be the full realisation that life, alone, is not so cruel after all, that blessings should be tallied at the end of each and every day.
What about a Me Day? A day to meet someone new, a day to create something new. You could invite a load of your single friends to attend a speed-dating evening, for example. What better way to shake off that self-pity and to realise that singledom is not a curse or a reason to sob into your wine. Home House of Portman Square put on a fantastic event on Valentine's Day called 'One to One in 21' (with a complimentary glass of Bellini, introductions and good banter).
Instead of sitting on your own, bemoaning your sorry state, you could be out there meeting people in the same situation. Don't let another Valentine drift away with your tears. Take control. Plan. Do something for yourself and for love.
Whilst many people who find themselves alone on Valentine's Day find it easy to be pessimistic, especially when they are bombarded with images of happy couples, it is important to remember that Valentine's Day is not just for couples. Obviously this is easy to say when lovers seem to be everywhere, restaurants are full of romantic tables for two and soppy cards take over every store front, but what about taking a different approach this year?
I am filled with pity for these folks who are solo in a world of pairs. But, do we have it all wrong. Isn't this Day of Love a day to celebrate just that: love? Love in its various, wonderful forms. No need for the sentimental card, the chocolate rose, the exorbitant restaurant. Time for a different approach. Time to think about actual love: love of a mother, a son, a friend. Deserves celebration, right? What about acts of kindness that fill one with a sense of well-being? So, alter your focus: show those who love you unconditionally how you feel; help those in need, give of yourself. The payback will be the full realisation that life, alone, is not so cruel after all, that blessings should be tallied at the end of each and every day.
What about a Me Day? A day to meet someone new, a day to create something new. You could invite a load of your single friends to attend a speed-dating evening, for example. What better way to shake off that self-pity and to realise that singledom is not a curse or a reason to sob into your wine. Home House of Portman Square put on a fantastic event on Valentine's Day called 'One to One in 21' (with a complimentary glass of Bellini, introductions and good banter).
Instead of sitting on your own, bemoaning your sorry state, you could be out there meeting people in the same situation. Don't let another Valentine drift away with your tears. Take control. Plan. Do something for yourself and for love.
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Home House is a social hangout for people from all walks of life, which is part of its unique appeal. Quite unlike many other Members Clubs in Mayfair, Home House is a place to enjoy leisure time or the perfect spot for a working day. Home House is London's premier Valentine's Night London.
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